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Jehovah’s Witnesses Meet Catholic Authority

On Tuesday morning my husband and I were doing our usual thing: he had just returned home from working third shift at his job and I was busy getting ready for the day.  I still had a towel on my head when I noticed two well-dressed men approaching our doorstep, bibles in hand.  Jehovah’s Witnesses.  The main door was already open with only the storm door separating our living room from the front porch.  We were very obviously home.  There would be no getting out of this.

So I did what any reasonable person would do: I bailed on my poor unsuspecting husband, opting instead to blow dry my hair in the bathroom and leave him to answer the door.  (“What honey?  No, I can’t hear you over this thing.  You get it!”)  But as I was in the bathroom avoiding the situation getting ready, I realized that I was being an idiot.  I had always been so afraid of these door-to-door evangelists, but these days I can’t get enough of faith-related discussions.  I usually spend my free time perusing the internet for a good debate to jump into; now one had just shown up at my front door.  I decided to put on my big girl pants and join my husband outside on the porch.

The gentlemen seemed very nice.  I could tell right away that they were passionate about what they were doing, but without that whole “You’re going to hell!” attitude that so often characterizes this type of evangelism.  They had been discussing something with Shannon before I entered the scene and when I came out, he headed inside to set out breakfast for the kids who were screaming like very hungry banshees.  I introduced myself and then cut straight to the chase.

“Did my husband tell you anything about our faith background?”  They shook their heads.  ”Well, we’re recent converts from Reformed Protestantism to Catholicism.”

Our visitors looked a little surprised.  The younger gentlemen actually laughed a little and said, “Wow, you never hear of that happening!”  I could empathize. Not long ago, I’d have said the same thing.

The older man had a few questions for me.  ”So you believe in everything the Catholic Church teaches?”

“Yes.”

“And you believe the Pope is infallible?”

“Yes.”  That was the first time I’d ever answered those questions with a simple affirmative answer.  It felt weird but awesome at the same time.  No doubts here!

The man continued.  ”So how do you feel about the Pope’s recent statements that we should remove the word “God” from our government and from our schools and even from our Bibles?”

“Well, I don’t think that actually happened.  Do you have a source for these claims?”

“It’s on the internet!”

“I see,” I said.  I realized right then that it was time to start directing this conversation.

Charles Taze Russell established the Jehovah’s Witnesses in 1931. They are considered a millenialist restorationist Christian denomination.

In June I wrote a post about authority and how authority is the bedrock upon which all other doctrinal matters rest.  Here before me stood two men who had come to convince me that Christ is not God.  Though I could have launched into a discussion about why Arianism is unbiblical, my arguments would have quickly disintegrated into a proof-texting battle with only one conceivable result: strong disagreement based on personal interpretation of scripture.  For the Catholic, however, this need not be the case.  When speaking to a Jehovah’s Witness (or any person outside the Catholic faith for that matter), we must require the person to demonstrate their authority to interpret scripture before we even enter a discourse about what scripture actually says.

At this point in the conversation, my visitors were attempting to steer the discussion towards the topic of Christ and His role in creation history.  Basically, they were using carefully-selected snippets of Scripture to prove that Christ was a creation of God, not God Himself.  I listened carefully and then responded.  ”I understand that you believe these verses to be evidence against the doctrine of the Trinity.  I disagree with your interpretations and believe that you have mistakenly taken the verses out of context.  Let’s talk more about that later.  First I would like to ask you some questions about how you establish truth in your faith tradition.  Do you believe that truth comes from the Bible?”  Yes, they answered.  ”Do you believe that the Bible is the only place to find this truth?”  They answered yes again.  ”Before we go on, could you please show me where this idea comes from, this idea that the Bible is the only place where divine authority rests?”

For the next ten or so minutes, the evangelists paged through their bibles in search of supporting texts for sola scriptura.  It was the usual suspects: 2 Timothy 3:16-17, Matthew 15:1-9, and so forth.  Having recently examined these very texts in light of Catholic teaching, I was able to explain why each of these proof-texts were not to be considered evidence of a “bible alone” approach to the written word of God.  The older gentleman resorted to the common argument that “Scripture interprets itself,” but I insisted that this could not possibly be true.  People interpret Scripture, and given the vastly different interpretations of even essential doctrines of the faith, most of these interpretations are wrong.  Who is wrong?  How do you know you are correct with such certainty that you can boldly share your interpretation with me on my porch today?  I explained the Catholic answer to this otherwise impossible problem: we believe sola scriptura to be thoroughly unbiblical.

Shannon had returned to my side on the porch and we tag-teamed a Reader’s Digest introduction to Catholic authority.  I used the three-legged stool analogy to explain where authority is derived, namely Scripture, Tradition, and the Magisterium.  Shannon helpfully provided evidence from the Church Fathers to support this general structure (The Fathers Know Best by Jimmy Akin came in handy for this).  He also dispelled some myths about the Papacy, taking care to point out that infallibility does not mean sinlessness, nor does infallibility apply to such things as predicting the weather or making bets on the outcome of the World Series.

I could tell that we were about to subject our visitors to information overload so I wrapped things up.  ”This is what we believe about our Church.  We converted to Catholicism because we believe that the Catholic Church is the only Christian body that has the God-given authority to define anything related to our faith.  If you can prove otherwise, we’ll consider converting.  In the meantime, all other doctrinal issues are secondary.  We must agree on authority before we can even discuss anything else.”

The two gentlemen admitted that they were not familiar with Catholic teaching on these matters.  They’d never heard of sola scriptura either, so I encouraged them to research the doctrine a bit and consider its implications for Protestant thought.  They definitely seemed to agree that we were at a loggerhead in the discussion based on this division alone.  We made it clear that they were both welcome to visit again soon to discuss these issues more.  I also complimented their obvious passion for God, misguided though we believed it to be.  ”Catholics could learn a thing or two about evangelization from you,” I said.  We ended our conversation on a friendly note.  I thought the entire exchange was very peaceful.  They were really nice people, I have to say.  I hope they thought the same of us.  They promised to be back and I genuinely hope they return.

To conclude, here are three thoughts that have been on my mind since the visit.

1.)  If you’re Catholic, please read this article by Catholic Answers titled “What’s Your Authority?”  It is an excellent resource to equip yourself for the inevitable day that you’re called to the carpet to defend your Catholic faith.  This article is useful for your interactions with Jehovah’s Witnesses, all Protestants, and even fallen-away Catholics who may be skeptical of Church teaching.  We’ve printed it, highlighted it, and review it regularly in an attempt to “always be ready to give a defense to anyone who asks for a reason for the hope that is in us” (1 Peter 3:15).  I firmly believe that the discussion suggestions in this article are the most effective for defending our faith – and causing others to evaluate their own.  Start with authority and save Michael the Archangel and blood transfusions for later.  Authority is the biggest deal!

2.)  I am once again so overwhelmed by how blessed I am to be Catholic.  I am continually struck by God’s faithfulness in providing a clear compass here on earth for navigating the path to truth.  Christians were never meant to constantly engage in circular debates with one another in a battle of personal interpretations.  Christ’s Church was never intended to be fractured with doctrinal divisions by groups all claiming to follow “Scripture alone.” While Catholics are certainly granted liberty in some matters, we need not rely on merely human interpretations of the sacred word of God to discover the saving knowledge of Christ.  We have the divinely-inspired Church on earth which can be trusted to bring us closer to Him by providing a unified, consistent, true interpretation of Scripture and Tradition.  We can confidently point to the Church and say to our separated brethren, “Here is truth.  It has always been, it will always be.  Authority is here.”  This is awesome beyond words and gives me peace like I’ve never known.

3.)  I just realized that we didn’t even touch on the topic of the Eucharist with our visitors.  Imagine if we did.  Next time.

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Matt Maher is Catholic.

If ever you wished you could sing along with a Christian song that used the term “transubstantiation,” behold:

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7 Quick Takes Friday, Volume 10

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A storm is a-brewin’ for a well-known Presbyterian pastor who recently announced his conversion to Rome.  I have a post ready to publish with the details and a link to the most recent update, but controversy has become so intense that the link I planned to share has been made unavailable for viewing at this time.  I hope the good people over at Called To Communion are able to re-publish the beautiful post again soon.  It was a stunner.

In the meantime, check out the initial announcement made by Jason Stellman over on his blog here.  If ever you doubted that true anti-Catholic bigotry existed today, take a gander at the comments section.  As one former Reformed reader noted, “This really is a blood sport for some of you men.”

I’m praying for Jason as he makes a most difficult and wonderful transition.

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At about the same time I was clicking “publish” on my last 7QT post, a gunman was shooting at innocent movie-goers at a theater in Colorado. We’ve all heard the story by now.  In a small way, the tragedy brings me back to what was easily the most terrifying day of my life when a young man opened fire on a lecture hall at my alma mater, Northern Illinois University.  On that February day in 2008, I sat crouched in a building next door peeking out the window as students ran for their lives.  Five students were killed in the same room where we attended our weekly Campus Crusade for Christ gatherings.  Bullets were fired from the same stage where the word of Christ was preached every Thursday night.

I’ll never forget how weird it was to see helicopters in the air above my school, above my apartment.  While I watched the horror of last week unfold in the news, I could feel the shock on the faces of the survivors.  It never hits you that this actually happened here.  Keep praying for those folks who were affected by last week’s shooting.  Twelve people dead and lives forever changed.  It’s just not fair.

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I really appreciate the comments I received on my post about NFP.  While I still have some unresolved reservations, I definitely have a better understanding of the issues I raised, namely in regards to NFP being used as contraception.  This might be one of those topics that take years to comprehend, but the last few days have been small stepping stones to better understanding.  Blogging is awesome.

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A Chic-Fil-A is opening in my neighborhood.  I’m going to buy their food using the money my husband earned working for a large corporation that supports gay marriage.  Now everyone can question my integrity… equal opportunity!

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Eight days ago, my prankster brother planted a microchip in my house that emits a shrill, electronic beep every 9 minutes and 42 seconds.  He attached it with a magnet to the underside of my fridge.  The only reason he came clean about the whole thing is because after a whole week spent emptying the kitchen in frustrated rage, we’d figured out it was indeed coming from the refrigerator.  He was afraid we’d call a repair man and end up with a hefty bill.  At least he knows where to draw the line.  Love you, brother!  Don’t forget what they say about revenge.

The device, aptly named the “annoy-a-tron.”

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Welcome to Homily Heaven!  I am loving Father Mike Schmitz these days and this podcast is being heavily utilized in our house.  Check out the one from July 1st for a really amazing breakdown of the HHS Mandate debacle from the perspective of a modern-minded yet totally orthodox (lower-case “o”) Catholic priest.  What a boss.  I used to think that only Evangelicals could preach with fervor.  Nope.

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This week’s Blog Better Than Mine is really amazing.  It’s by my friend Nicole who writes a beautiful blog titled Mashena.  Check out her recent post about internet friendships: Ode to the Internet.

Nicole and I actually met online almost ten years ago through another blogging site.  Over the years we’ve grown as friends through the ups and downs of life.  About two years ago Nicole moved to Chicago for a job working with young women as a house mother (lucky ladies!) and we’ve had the blessed opportunity to meet up “in real life.”  Wednesday was a really great day as we set out into the city for lunch, shopping, and catching up.  Her post Ode to the Internet expresses my thoughts about online friendships so perfectly.  I hope you love her blog as much as I do.

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Natural Family Planning and My Failure to Connect the Dots

A few months ago I was having The Conversation with someone close to me, a Protestant friend of many years.  I was dropping the bomb about joining the Catholic Church and as was expected, I found myself in a back-and-forth about the implications of this decision.  Something she said struck me as odd:  “But now you’re going to have to do what the Church says, you know!”  I thought that was weird.  Well, yeah.  Doesn’t any genuine Christian accept their church’s teachings as binding on their lifestyle?  This should be nothing new.

I pondered my friend’s words for the rest of the evening and suddenly, it dawned on me.  Maybe she was making reference to the Church’s world-famous stance against birth control?  I couldn’t think of any other lifestyle implication that would spur such a comment.  I never did ask what she meant, but it’s a fair assumption that she was now picturing Shannon and me driving a small bus to the grocery store with our sixteen unplanned little blessings in tow.  (Maybe she was singing this in her head too.)

If my brain had been working a little faster that day, I’d have set her straight right there: ditching contraception was not an issue for us in our conversion to Catholicism.  In fact, we’d rejected it long ago as Protestants from the earliest days of our marriage.  God convicted us in a big way that we were to remain open to life and to let Him determine the size of our family.  We were struck with the idea that we humans are simply not permitted to decide how many other humans should make their way into this world.  I initially had a tough time with this conviction because of the serious life implications that came with it (I was studying in college to be a teacher at the time and was now facing the possibility of having a child within the year).  My husband didn’t have much trouble with it at all and was very encouraging to me during that trial of our faith.  We trusted God and have since been blessed with two beautiful daughters in His timing.  As we approach our fifth anniversary, we can’t imagine any other way of living.

In my Catholic recovery story, I shared a bit about my struggles to relate to our fellow Protestant Christians in our convictions about family planning.  Shannon and I were certainly a minority among the young adults in our life.  When we initially considered Catholicism, we were impressed by the Church’s unwavering stance against birth control.  As was the case with so many of our faith convictions, we discovered that the Church had it right all along.  Pope John Paul II’s Theology of the Body was both affirming and completely mind-blowing at the same time.  Rather than struggling with the prospect of a contraception-free marriage, we were relieved.  We continue to price out small buses for future family transport.

I have to admit, however, that I am struggling with something related to Church teaching on this matter.  I really don’t understand how the concept of Natural Family Planning can be reconciled with living a life of Catholic faith.  I admit that this sounds like I’m questioning Church teaching, and I’m honestly not trying to be rebellious or anything like that.  I am confident that I’m simply misunderstanding or missing some vital piece of the puzzle.  Allow me to share my disjointed thoughts here and perhaps you can help me out.

First of all, I have made effort to study the purpose of NFP in the context of Catholic marriage.  I’m familiar with the Catholic concept of marital intimacy as an integral part of who we are as human beings created by God.  I’m definitely on board with the concept of “openness to life.”  We’ve embraced these values since our Protestant days.  What I don’t understand, however, is how all of these wonderful concepts can be reconciled with Natural Family Planning, which seems to me to be just another method of controlling fertility.  NFP has long been marginalized as “Catholic birth control” and I understand that Catholic proponents of NFP reject this notion wholeheartedly.  After all, Natural Family Planning is approved as an acceptable practice by the Church itself!  NFP can certainly be used with a contraceptive mindset, but I’m having a hard time separating that mindset from the “proper use” promoted by the Church.

When my husband and I were convicted to reject birth control in our marriage, we did so for one reason: faith in God to determine our family size.  Of course, there were the added benefits of enhanced intimacy, healthier living, and the peace that comes with being right with God in our marriage.  But the sole purpose was to relinquish control, to make a daily statement to God that we were not our own possessions but instead “living sacrifices” to Him (Romans 12:1).

Natural Family Planning seems to violate these values in its attempt to inject human wisdom into the equation.  When a couple discerns a “grave reason” to postpone or avoid pregnancy, Natural Family Planning is touted as the answer to this moral dilemma.  Enjoy intimacy when you’re confident that you won’t get pregnant; abstain on the days you’re likely to conceive.  Depending on who you ask, NFP can be wildly successful for avoiding pregnancy when you’re armed with the right knowledge.  Then comes the escape clause: And if you do end up pregnant, it’s because you were open to life.  

Hmm.  Open to life?  While I don’t presume to know anyone’s motives, it would seem to me on a purely objective level that this logic could easily be applied to using actual contraception.  Of course, I make the distinction that hormonal contraception is not what I’m talking about here due to its abortive nature.  But what about condoms?  Consider the couple with a grave reason to avoid pregnancy.  They use condoms to prevent pregnancy but also acknowledge their failure rate (as low as 82% effective according to the Centers for Disease Control).  If the wife becomes pregnant from a failure of the condom, they would thank God for the blessing and make the necessary arrangements to accommodate a new (and unexpected) family member.  Couldn’t we argue that this couple is “open to life?”  The desire to avoid pregnancy seems virtually identical, but one method is acceptable and the other a mortal sin.  Why?

I’ve voiced this concern aloud and others have graciously tried to help me understand the difference.  “But with NFP, you’re not putting a barrier between the male and female biology.  You’re not rejecting one another’s fertility the way you would if you altered your biology with hormones or limited your physical contact using a barrier method.”  Fair enough.  I know firsthand the joy of a marriage free from these concerns.  What I still don’t understand is how abstaining from the marital embrace with the explicit purpose of avoiding pregnancy is not considered a rejection of your partner’s fertility!  Oh, if my husband pointed to a calendar one night and said, “Sorry honey, you ovulated yesterday,” I’d be so heartbroken.  It would be the pinnacle of rejection.  Worse yet, we’d be actively controlling our desire to avoid a pregnancy – we’d be controlling birth!  Why would this be permissible?

While I’m demonstrating my failure to connect the dots, here’s another concept I don’t understand: a “grave reason” to avoid pregnancy.  This “grave reason” clause is widely celebrated in the Catholic blogosphere, as I’ve come to find.  I recently read a post on a Catholic news source in which the female author reassured her readers that a “grave reason” could be anything, really.  What she described sounded like a relativist free-for-all in which a couple could use their religious liberty to subjectively define what constitutes a “grave reason” to limit their family size.  It was like Protestantism all over again.  I found it to be very disheartening.  Though I acknowledge that the author of the article probably misrepresented Catholic teaching on family planning, I was struck by the fact that there is indeed no protocol for determining whether a a “grave reason” is serious enough to justify the prevention of pregnancy.  One couple may believe that the wife’s medical condition is a grave reason.  Another couple might decide that their income isn’t sufficient and so avoid pregnancy until a later time.  Both scenarios are acceptable so long as the couple perceives them as serious impediments to parenthood.

I really appreciate that the Church values a woman beyond her capacity to bear children.  As I’ve read time and time again on NFP websites and blogs, the Church doesn’t believe that couples need to have as many children as humanly possible in order to live a devout Catholic life.  And yes, I do believe that there are actual grave reasons to avoid pregnancy.  I wholeheartedly assent that there are times in a woman’s life when pregnancy would be unwise or even downright dangerous, such as in the postpartum period, when seriously ill, when undergoing cancer treatment, etc.  I believe this is what the Apostle Paul was talking about when he admonished the Corinthians to abstain from marital relations “by mutual consent,” and for a determined time, if the need arose  (1 Corinth 7:5).  I can’t help but feel that Natural Family Planning seeks to circumvent this directive from Saint Paul by promoting the “have your cake and eat it too,” mentality.  With the help of modern science, we can know exactly when a woman is fertile and when she is not (and with brag-worthy accuracy – just ask your local NFP instructor).  Did Saint Paul intend to tell us that a “determined time” could be the length of a woman’s fertile period, therefore freeing us to enjoy the unitive aspect of sex without its procreative counterpart?  I’m not so sure.  It doesn’t feel right.

I’m told that my belief in giving God total control of our family size is called “providentialism” and that while not morally objectionable, it is not promoted by the Church.  My husband and I feel very blessed to have such peace about God’s provision in our lives.  Should we encounter a grave reason to avoid pregnancy, we’d abstain totally.  Some Catholics believe Natural Family Planning is an acceptable alternative to this plan but I truly can’t understand why, given my concerns about inevitably entering a contraceptive mindset.

Despite my criticism here, I’m sincerely not coming at this from a place of judgment.  I admit that my being new to the Catholic way of thinking is likely to blame for my frustration by this issue.  What am I missing here?  Do you believe that Natural Family Planning is compatible with faith in God’s plan for our family size?  Why or why not?  I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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7 Quick Takes Friday, Volume 9

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Boo.  Well I haven’t posted in awhile.   This past weekend was packed full of activity and I’ve been taking it easy ever since.  There were even a couple of nights that I went to sleep before midnight!  I have a new post in the works that I hope to have up this weekend.  I’m excited about it, so stay tuned.

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Thanks for all your input about homeschooling last week.  I really appreciated the encouragement, advice, and resources.  Strangely, my mailbox has been full of homeschool curriculum guides this past week .  Weird, huh?  Its been fun to look through.  Almost all of the materials advertised in the guides are Christian-based.  I’m realizing the importance of reviewing the “statement of faith” on the materials.  There’s some interesting stuff out there!

This week I’m starting small and creating my materials for a daily calendar/weather time using felt boards.  The kids are intrigued by what I’m working on.  I’ll post pics when I’m done.

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Just after posting last week about my apprehension of raising my daughters in the faith, I came across this post from the Archdiocese of Washington about religious “retention rates.”  Check out the stats for Catholics!  Pretty encouraging.  (Also interesting are the stats for atheists.)  The study was done by the Centers for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA).  According to the chart, the majority of Greek Orthodox, Catholic, Baptist, Lutheran, and Pentecostal Christian children will stick with their faith upbringing into adulthood.  For other Christians, more than 50% end up somewhere else, theologically speaking.

Here’s a copy of the graph:

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Saw this quote this week and thought it was pretty neat:

The Catholic Church never suits the particular mood of any age, because it was made for all ages. A Catholic knows that if the Church married the mood of any age in which it lived, it would be a widow in the next age. The mark of the true Church is that it will never get on well with the passing moods of the world: “I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.” (John 15:19).  — Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen

I’m amazed by how my perspective has evolved over the years.  I might write a full post on this someday.

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Beautiful image from Imagine Sisters!

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On a completely non-spiritual note…

Today we took our girls to the pediatrician for checkups.  At one point the doctor asked my older daughter to demonstrate that she could walk on her tip-toes.  Though she can tip-toe, she didn’t understand the request so I tried to explain what the doctor meant.  ”Ohhh, okay,” she said.  She then proceeded to curl her toes downward awkwardly while stepping slowly, dragging her feet behind her in a kind of exaggerated limp.  Without missing a beat, my husband blurted out, “Oh man, someone’s been watching The Walking Dead.”  Sure enough, our kid was doing an Oscar-worthy zombie imitation.  I laughed until I cried, right there in the exam room.  We’re expecting a follow-up visit from CPS any day now.

(Note: Our children do not watch The Walking Dead.  But we do.  Just to clarify.)

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This week’s Blog Better Than Mine is really cool.  Check out Sophia’s blog, succinctly titled I Need Your Help!  Sophia started her blog to help her pay down debt before entering a convent.  Her blog is so inspiring and enjoyable to read.  Even better – Sophia’s generous readers have already raised tens of thousands of dollars to put toward her debt (which must be paid down completely within the next few years).  Sophia is joining the Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist in just about a month.  Read, pray, donate!

Sophia also has a Facebook page for her blog here.

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7 Quick Takes Friday, Volume 8

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I distinctly remember the day I ventured into Barnes and Noble to buy my first book about Catholicism.  At this point I still considered myself highly skeptical of all things Rome and thus found the experience of browsing the “Religion” section to be more than a little intimidating.  I started with a very basic title: Catholicism for Dummies by Fr. JohnTrigilio and Fr. Kenneth Brighenti.  It seemed simple, straightforward, and to the point (and actually it was awesome and I highly recommend it to anyone, Catholic or otherwise, though later I moved on to more scholarly sources).  I was terrified that someone would see me buying such a blasphemous book, so I got out of there as quickly as possible.

For some reason I decided to keep the receipt from my purchase.  I used it as a bookmark, not really thinking much about it.  About a year later, my husband and I joked that no one could ever accuse me of making a rash decision to become a Catholic revert – and I had the receipt to prove it!  The other day I found that silly receipt and we had another good laugh.  It’s almost three years old now.

September 9, 2009.  And I totally overpaid.

I think I’ll keep it as an artifact from the beginning of our amazing journey home.

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Any home educators out there?  This fall, our homeschooling years officially begin.  My older daughter just turned three and I’m excited to begin some semi-structured learning at home.  Of course, both of my girls are already learning at home through play and interaction together and with friends.  My hope is to devote a bit more focus on specific preschool skills in preparation for the academic years that are just around the corner.

My educational background is in elementary education and I feel pretty confident in my ability to evaluate curriculum and chart our own learning course.  What intimidates me is the idea of instructing my girls in our faith (which will obviously be a major focus of my homeschooling objectives).  This is a totally new area of expertise for me and while I consider myself to be a knowledgeable Catholic, I’m not so sure I’m knowledgeable about making our beautiful faith come alive to my little girls.  I have the added terror of recalling what I was like as a child – the skeptical, bored, and inwardly-rebellious kid who secretly tuned out at the mention of Jesus.  What if my kids are like me?  Why do I get the feeling that my kids are going to just as inquisitive as I was?  I need to be prepared for this.

So needless to say, I’m on the hunt for preschool curriculum that has an emphasis on Catholic faith.  I’m also interested in finding forums, web sites, and blogs that focus on these topics too.  Can you recommend anything?

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Speaking of my children, they’re already brilliant if I do say so myself.  The other day I found them in bathroom baptizing their dolls in the dog’s water dish.  My older daughter seemed to be the main celebrant of the sacrament with the younger daughter simply following her orders.  Later, younger daughter emerged from the bathroom with a dripping head and that’s when I put the kabosh on the whole thing.

I also noticed that my older daughter has been paying attention at mass lately. This evening she was “reading” one of her story books and kept inserting the phrase “the Lord” as she narrated the pictures.  The only place she could have picked this up was from church!  She’s also more familiar with the new translation of the mass than many of our fellow parishioners.

In a way, “homeschooling” is going pretty well already.

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Under the heading “Things In Which I Will Never Be Competent,” I place the field of web design.  I had one major goal this week for my business: create a website.  I have failed so miserably to scrape together anything that even remotely functions as a professional internet destination.  I wish I could describe what I find to be so difficult about the web design process, but my brain is so fried from the experience that I can’t even articulate what is going awry.  I have made the executive decision to hire someone.  It will be expensive but the relief I feel tonight is worth it already.

Ironically, I’m really happy with the design of this blog.  I like the header design, the fonts, the background pattern.  ”I’m like a web designer!” I thought erroneously.  As it turns out, I’m not.  It was just an unfortunate coincidence that The Recovered Catholic looks presentable.  I’ll probably never change the appearance of this blog again, lest I destroy it with my sheer lack of any technological skills whatsoever.

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My husband and I have been completely obsessed with this song by Josh Garrels called Revelator.  (Spoiler alert: It’s about the book of Revelation.)  We both agree that it gives us chills.

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A dear friend of mine had a question about the video featured in my last entry. She asked specifically for the biblical proof of the Immaculate Conception of Mary.  Her question was a good one and the answer wasn’t clear from the video itself.  Here was my response:

At 8:20 in the video, there is a reference to the Annunciation. For whatever reason, the creator of the video didn’t provide the exact scripture verse. It’s Luke 1:28 in which the angel Gabriel says “Hail, full of grace, the Lord is with you.” The traditional Greek translation of “full of grace” is “to fill or endow with grace.” The tense of the phrase is in the perfect passive participle which, in English, indicates that Mary’s fullness of grace was present always, at the very earliest moment of her being – her conception.  She was given grace in the past with continuing effects in the present. This is where we get the term “Immaculate Conception.” 

Another scripture proof that the video creator DID include is a bit more implicit. The latter part of the video demonstrates Mary’s role as Ark of the New Covenant. If Mary IS the Ark of the New Covenant (which we can reasonably conclude through scripture), then it would be both logical and necessary that she be undefiled by sin. The Old Testament Ark of the Covenant was the epitome of sacred to the Jews because it symbolized the forthcoming Messiah. The Old Ark was so pure that it could not even be touched by sinful man. If Mary is the New Ark, she brought the Messiah to mankind – literally. She would need to be pure and free from sin. 

Here’s a link to more info, which I keep bookmarked for reference.

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This week, I’d like to highlight some links to a few fantastic reads from my Reader as of late.  The New Evangelization is alive and well in the Catholic blogosphere these days!

We Are Starting Over by “The Reverend Know-It-All,” Father Richard Simon of Relevant Radio.  He has some interesting thoughts on the future of religious education.

Paganism, Prophesies, and Propaganda by Father Dwight Longenecker.  He shares his thoughts on the claim that Catholicism is a recycled form of Paganism.

Is Scripture Self-Attesting? by Joe Heschmeyer at Shameless Popery

Okay, over and out!  It’s been a particularly ridiculous week for my music program and as you read this, I’m conducting a field trip for thirty kindergarten students.  This is on top of the six students I will teach this afternoon in my regular classes.  Luckily, my schedule is consolidated into just two hectic days.  Weekend, she cometh!

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The hour I first believed (in Mary)

Actually, accepting the Church’s teachings on Mary didn’t take an entire hour.  It took eleven minutes, the length of this video.  (The other forty-nine minutes of that hour were spent in tears of amazement.)

It was yet another moment in which I asked myself “To where else would I go, but the Catholic Church?”

The first thing that kindles ardor in learning is the greatness of the teacher. What is greater than the Mother of God? What more glorious than she whom glory itself chose?”

-St. Ambrose of Milan, A.D. 377

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7 Quick Takes Friday, Volume 7

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Last Friday my husband and I left the kids with Grandma and Grandpa and went to see For Greater Glory.  I don’t even know what kind of sentence to type next.  It was well-produced and fascinating and pretty darn scary all at the same time.  If you haven’t heard of it, the film is about the Cristero War of 1926-1929 in Mexico.  The Mexican government basically tried to eradicate the Catholic Church by means of extreme persecution.  The Church fought back and proved again that “the gates of hell would not prevail.”  But oh, the violence and terror those Christians faced.  So many martyrs.  That could never happen here….could it?

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On a much lighter note, I learned this week that my grandparents have sold their house and are moving to live closer to us.  What used to be a 60+ minute drive will now be a mere 15 minute trip.  We are really excited about this, as we’ve always wished to be closer to them.  I know they’ll be sad to move away from the place they called home for over forty years, but hopefully the excitement of seeing their super adorable great-granddaughters more often will help ease the transition.  My husband is excited to help them shovel their driveway in the winter.  What a guy.  :)  They close on the new house in August!

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In other family excitement, my brother just returned from Europe this week after a six-month stay in Linz, Austria.  He is studying music and is now home on break.  My family was so thrilled for his homecoming.  Not only did far too many people accompany my dad and me to retrieve him from the airport, but we also had a huge lunch at a fun restaurant on the way home followed by a massive steak dinner that night at my parents’.  We ate European chocolate and drank Austrian beer and watched my daughters show off for their uncle with visible excitement.  It’s been really fun and I thank God for his safe return home.  He’ll be with us in the States until September.

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I’ve been learning about the Liturgy of the Hours (it’s also apparently called the Divine Office).  At first I looked at it and thought “Oh no way.  I am just too busy for that.”  But the more I learn, the more I’ve begun to seriously consider making it a part of my daily life.  I love the idea of praying with millions of fellow believers as one Church, one body.  I really liked Simcha Fisher’s thoughts on the subject over on her blog at the National Catholic Register website.

You might be thinking, “Well why not just start doing it then?”  Because I’m type-A, that’s why.  I either do things or I don’t do them; “go big or go home.”  Its just how I am.  I have a feeling I’m going to choose to do it, though.  When I do, I want to be committed and actually pray with consistency.  Anyone else pray the Divine Office?  Is it a difficult discipline?  Do you recommend it?  (I don’t really expect anyone to answer “no” to that last one.)  I’m especially interested in tips from fellow mothers of one or more human cyclones adorable young children who might find themselves short on time as it is.

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It was the Fourth of July this past week and the first year that I didn’t see any fireworks.  :(  My excuse: it was too darned hot!  The Chicagoland area has been experiencing a terrible heat wave and temps remain in the nineties well after nightfall.  The lack of rain has not helped.  More fireworks were scheduled for Sunday night but have been canceled due to fire hazards.  I am thanking God for air conditioning and have on several occasions said to my husband, “Remember when we almost bought that one house without central air?!  What were we thinking?!”  (It’s true.  At one point during our 2010 house hunting adventure I fell in love with a house without a/c.  What a short-lived love that would have been!)

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My last post about sola scriptura was fun because I received some interesting feedback from a few readers in the comments section.  It is neat to encounter such a diverse range of Christian perspective in one place.  Anyway, as much as I enjoyed the comments exchange, I found myself feeling really stressed out about responding in a timely manner.  I felt like if I didn’t sit down and respond this very second, I could think of little else.  I hereby give this disclaimer: I do most of my blogging on the weekends while the kids are in bed and my husband is at work (he works third shift).  So if I don’t get back to you on a Thursday morning, just check back with me in a few days.

There.  Now that I’ve said this, I won’t feel nearly the pressure I did before.  :)   (I’m one of those people who invents her own stress.  Can you tell?)

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This week’s Blog Better Than Mine is not actually a blog, but a website that has a blog.  It’s a new project called 1Flesh.org and is aimed at addressing the pitfalls of contraception use in marriage.  Your reaction will be either one of two varieties: 1) “What the hell?  Who on earth is against contraception?  Is this a joke? ” or 1) “Awesome!  A hip, attractive media outlet for young married people to discover the beauty of sex as God designed it!”  Whatever your reaction, I hope you’ll follow the link to this very cool and very informative site.

I think the feature that I most appreciate about this new project is the total absence of faith affiliation.  Of course, everyone would expect a site like this to be run by crazy Catholics (and for the most part, it is!), but you won’t find any talk of religion here.  The developers sought to focus on the practical and universal benefits of rejecting contraception.  (And as I learn time and time again, Catholicism and reason are usually on the same side of any controversy.)  Anyway, at least check out the graphics.  Some of them are hilarious.  I hope to snag one of them for this blog to help spread the word.

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Sola Scriptura: Every Man A Prophet

There’s a story in the media that’s been gaining momentum, and it involves blogging.  Popular atheist blogger Leah Libresco has denounced her atheist worldview and embraced Catholicism.  Public reaction has been enormous.  Beyond the 1,000+  comments on her eloquent announcement post (linked above), Leah has also been featured on several major news outlets like CNN and MSNBC.  This conversion tale was incredibly shocking for many people, atheists and theists alike.  With shock comes the morbid curiosity that attracts attention and begs the biggest question: why?

My ears perk up when I hear stories like this.  While I love any good conversion story, I am particular interested to hear about the journeys of people who used to be hostile to the Church.  Surely this was the case for Leah, whose atheist philosophy denied the very existence of a creator to begin with – let alone one who sacrificed Himself on a cross for our salvation and then decided to remain with us in the form of bread at your local Catholic parish.  Because c’mon now… it doesn’t get more theistic than that.

Leah’s story holds an appeal for everyone, really.  The atheists are wondering how such an intelligent person could fall victim to Sky Daddy propaganda. Many have even concluded that “she was never a true atheist to begin with” (where have I heard this kind of thinking before?).  Meanwhile, the Christians are putting aside the divisions of the Reformation for a moment to ask an even bigger question in unison: Why the Catholic faith?  Isn’t that pretty specific for a person who once denounced all faiths with equal disdain?  Of course, any devout Catholic could offer a myriad of reasons for their communion with Rome to the exclusion of all Protestant sects, but what does Ms. Libresco herself have to say?

Leah was recently interviewed in a post by Joe Heschmeyer at his blog Shameless Popery.  Do read the whole interview for yourself, but in my post today I wish to highlight Leah’s response to the question, “What was the strongest argument you heard in favor of Catholicism?”  Her answer:

One of the strongest is the weight Catholicism places on Sacred Tradition and institutional structure. It’s pretty clear that the sola scriptura approach doesn’t yield the kind of consistency it promises (it’s like the religious equivalent of constitutional originalism). So where are you supposed to go to interpret what God has given? Catholicism does a pretty good job of creating a forum for debate without getting so loosey-goosey that everyone is essentially functioning as a prophet.

Yes!  A thousand times yes.  Leah puts into words what I spent years trying to articulate in my own mind.  As I discussed in my post last week, the interpretation of any doctrinal or theological matter hinges on one factor: authority.  Closely related to authority is the issue of scripture, for scripture is the written and infallible word of God, made available to us through a Church that was necessarily made infallible in its choosing of the infallible books contained therein.  This Church, this “institutional structure,” is where an atheist off the streets of secularism can confidently turn for the interpretation of what God has given.  The full deposit of faith is here in the Catholic Churchand it doesn’t sound like Leah had much difficulty with this more specific leg of her journey at all.  I loved her answer to Joe’s question because of her simple reply.  It was like she was saying, “Well duh – where else would I go?!”

Most mainline Protestants I know would recoil in horror at Leah’s thoughts regarding sola scriptura.  ”Every man a prophet?  Surely she grossly misunderstands sola scriptura!”  But hold your horses – what Leah says is remarkably accurate.  Consider the fact that authority lies with no distinct “institutional structure” within the Protestant world and that for the Protestant Christian, Scripture alone is the sole authority on which all doctrines hinge.  I’m trying to think of a grandiloquent way to say this, but let’s be frank: beyond being a concept completely absent from the pages of scripture itself, sola scriptura is a fallacious concept.  It just doesn’t work (and oh, how I used to wish it could).  With all due respect to my Protestant brethren, the idea is erroneous on paper and even worse in practice, for never has the body of Christ been splintered into finer shards than it is in this post-Reformation world.  Every man functions as the authority over the scripture he claims to be subject to and the results yield anything but unity.  Leah’s assessment of her alternative options is hardly an exaggeration.

My husband and I keep a collection of study bibles from our Protestant days to use as references when studying the Catholic interpretation of scripture.  My favorite for comparative study is The MacArthur Study Bible, a leather-bound New King James version with commentary from Dr. John MacArthur, a respected Calvinist preacher and speaker.  Perhaps for reasons of nostalgia, I make a habit of asking myself “What do the Calvinists say?” after digesting the Catholic perspective on a given topic or verse of scripture, and the MacArthur Bible is helpful to this end.  Read what Dr. MacArthur says about John 20:23 which reads, “If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained:”

20:23 This verse does not give authority to Christians to forgive sins.  Jesus was saying that the believer can boldly declare the certainty of a sinner’s forgiveness by the Father because of the work of His Son if that sinner has repented and believed the gospel.

You know, Martin Luther once said that scripture could be interpreted “even by a plowboy.”  I ask you: what plowboy could come to Dr. MacArthur’s interpretation of John 20:23 above?  Does the so-called perspicuity of scripture allow for such wildly far-reaching interpretations like Dr. MacArthur’s, so long as they are valiantly decrying Rome in the process?  John 20:23 is a clear mandate for the continuation of Jesus’ ministry of mercy and forgiveness, the institution of the Sacrament of Reconciliation.  The verse cannot be explained away as anything less significant and never did anyone even attempt to do so until about the time of the Reformation.  Dr. MacArthur offers a way around this very Catholic “problem verse” by insisting that Jesus said something that He literally did not.  The plowboys of today, educated though they may be, find themselves in such predicaments quite often (think John 6 and the denial of the Real Presence of the Eucharist for a most significant example).  It is a sad but necessary result of the total rejection of God-given magisterial authority.  It is the epitome of every man functioning as his own prophet.

Leah Libresco’s decision to embrace faith has been a big surprise.  Her decision to embrace the Catholic faith, however, actually makes quite a bit of sense.  To who else will we go?  As the quote at the top of my blog says, “I will go peaceably and firmly to the Catholic Church: for if Faith is so important to our salvation, I will seek it where true Faith first began, seek it among those who received it from God Himself.”  This quote, of course, is from Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton, a convert to the Catholic faith herself.  Her words ring true for many a recovered Catholic.

I’m praying for Leah as she continues her journey.  It is a tough road, but one you can’t not travel once Christ draws you near.  You can follow Leah’s blog, Unequally Yoked, over at its brand new home in the Patheos Catholic portal.  :)

[By the way, my blog isn't one where dissenting thoughts are squashed in the comment moderation process, nor does this blog have an imprimatur.  I welcome respectful feedback on any post I write.]  

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